ME/CFS symptoms usually start suddenly. But for some people, they develop slowly over weeks or months. Symptoms can change in a day, and from day to day. And how severe the symptoms are can differ from person to person.

Symptoms can vary with ME/CFS. But there is a core set of symptoms that affect nearly everyone with ME/CFS.

Core symptoms

The core symptoms are:

Extreme physical fatigue, mental fatigue, or both.

Fatigue can be constant, or it can come and go. It's not relieved by rest. This fatigue also is so severe that it interferes with your work, play, and social activities.

Worsening of symptoms after activity (post-exertional malaise).

You may feel ill or weak or that your ME/CFS symptoms are worse after physical or mental activity. Even daily activities like showering, cooking, and reading can trigger symptoms. Often there is a delay of 24 hours before it starts. It can take days, weeks, or more to feel better.

Sleep problems.

You may have trouble sleeping. Or you may wake up feeling tired or not rested.

Problems with thinking (cognitive impairment).

You may have problems concentrating, remembering, or thinking of the right word.

Feeling dizzy or faint while in an upright position (orthostatic intolerance).

You may feel dizzy, weak, exhausted, confused, or in more pain when you have been standing or sitting upright for a long time. These symptoms usually improve or go away when you lie down.

Other symptoms

ME/CFS may also cause other symptoms. These may be just as common as the core symptoms. Different people with ME/CFS have different combinations of:

• Pain, which can be widespread or in one place. ME/CFS pain can be in one area, then move to another. You may have:
  • Muscle pain.
  • Joint pain.
  • A headache.
• Tender glands in your neck or armpits.
• Sensitivity to light, noise, chemicals, and certain foods.
• Flu-like symptoms like fever and sore throat.
• Urinating often.
• Digestive issues like bloating, abdominal pain, nausea, diarrhea, or constipation.
• Low body temperature, cold hands and feet, sweating, or trouble with heat or cold.
• Feeling worse after any kind of physical or emotional stress.
• Weight change or appetite change.

It's common for people with a chronic condition like ME/CFS to feel depressed. Some may grieve the loss of the active life they once had. If you feel depressed, talk with your doctor. Treatment for depression may prevent ME/CFS symptoms from getting worse.

ME/CFS may come upon you gradually or all of a sudden. It is hard to say what is normal with ME/CFS. That's because the diagnosis often is not clear for some time.

In general, most people with ME/CFS:

• Feel that the illness doesn't improve over time.
• Report that symptoms are always present. But from day to day, symptoms may be better or worse.

But some people with ME/CFS may:

• Feel that the illness gets worse over time.
• Notice that their symptoms go away completely and then return.
• Notice that their symptoms get better with treatment, but they don't return to feeling as well as they did before the illness.

Most people with ME/CFS find that their symptoms greatly reduce their ability to do the things they want and need to do. But ME/CFS is different for everyone. Symptoms are worse for some people than for others.

It's important to talk to your doctor about any symptoms you may have.

Call your doctor if you have:

• Severe fatigue that lasts longer than 2 weeks, causes you to limit your usual activities, and does not improve with rest.
• Sleep problems that last for more than 1 to 2 months. These problems may include being unable to fall asleep or stay asleep, tossing and turning, and waking up feeling tired or not rested.
• Swelling in the glands in your neck or armpits (without other signs of infection) that lasts for at least 2 weeks.
• Severe fatigue along with frequent urination (especially at night), extreme thirst, weight loss, or blurred vision. Fatigue that occurs with some or all of these may be a symptom of undiagnosed diabetes.
• Severe headache that does not improve with home treatments.

Watchful waiting

Watchful waiting is a wait-and-see approach. A month or two of paying close attention to your sleep habits, trying to control stress, and eating a balanced diet will take care of most cases of fatigue not caused by ME/CFS or another medical problem. But if your fatigue has not improved after 1 to 2 months of self-care, or if fatigue won't go away and limits your usual activities, call your doctor.

If you have been diagnosed with ME/CFS, pay attention to any new or worsening symptoms and report them to your doctor. Although ME/CFS can cause a variety of symptoms, new symptoms could be caused by another illness or medical condition that may need to be evaluated and treated.

Who to see

While there are doctors who specialize in the treatment of ME/CFS, it is always wise to start with your family doctor and learn as much as you can about the illness.

Depending on your symptoms, your family doctor may refer you to a specialist like a physiatrist, rheumatologist, neurologist, pain management specialist, or cardiologist.

It's common to also have depression or anxiety along with a chronic condition like ME/CFS. So you may also be referred to a psychologist or psychiatrist for treatment.

Doctors use a specific list of symptoms to diagnose ME/CFS. Sometimes they may have you track your symptoms, activity, and rest in a diary. Since symptoms of ME/CFS can be similar to other conditions, doctors may do additional tests to confirm a diagnosis of ME/CFS. Or they may use a variety of tests to rule out other conditions.

Criteria for diagnosing ME/CFS

To be diagnosed with ME/CFS, you must have all of these symptoms:^{footnote 2}

• Major decrease in your ability to do the things you did before you got sick—including work, school, social, or personal activities—that has continued for more than 6 months.
• Worsening of symptoms after being mentally or physically active (post-exertional malaise).
• Sleep problems, including not feeling rested after sleeping (unrefreshed sleep).
• Extreme fatigue that is:
  • New or has not been a life-long problem.
  • Not caused by being active for a long period of time.
  • Not much better after resting.

You must also have one or more of these symptoms:

• Problems with concentration, short-term memory, or using the correct word (cognitive impairment).
• Feeling dizzy or faint while standing or sitting upright that gets better when you lie down (orthostatic intolerance).

Tests to confirm a diagnosis of ME/CFS

Other conditions can cause symptoms similar to ME/CFS, so your doctor may do more tests to confirm the diagnosis. These may include:

Orthostatic testing.

Tests may be done to see if you have symptoms after being upright for long periods of time.

Neuropsychological testing.

This may be done to see if you are having problems with your ability to think, concentrate, or remember.

Cardiopulmonary exercise test (CPET).

This may be done to see if you recover after physical activity. Often the test is done and repeated about 24 hours later.

Tests to rule out other conditions

Based on your symptoms, the doctor may do tests to look for other causes of your symptoms, including signs of a chronic infection, autoimmune disease, or low levels of hormones. These tests might include other tests, such as blood or urine tests and may be done to rule out other conditions. And based on your symptoms, the doctor may do additional tests to look for signs of a chronic infection, autoimmune disease, or low levels of hormones.

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There isn't a cure yet for ME/CFS. So the keys to living with ME/CFS are learning how to pace your activities and treating your symptoms. Find a primary doctor who understands ME/CFS, knows how to treat it, and helps you feel supported.

A good relationship with your doctor is important. That's because the two of you will need to work together to find a mix of medicines and behaviour changes that will help you get better. Some trial and error may be needed. That's because no single combination of treatments works for everyone.

Treat the worst symptom first

Start by listing your worst symptoms—the ones that make it hardest to get through the day. With your doctor, focus first on treating those symptoms. Decide whether a specialist might be helpful for any of them.

The most common ME/CFS symptoms can also be the most treatable.

Symptoms worse after activity (post-exertional malaise).

Learning how to manage your activity can help you be as active as possible without causing your symptoms to get worse. This includes:

• Estimating how much energy you have on a given day. This is sometimes called your "energy envelope." You spend only that much energy, and not more.
• Estimating how much energy an activity takes and how long you can do that activity. You stop when you reach that time, and then take a break.
• Not pushing yourself to get more done on days you feel well.
• Adapting activities to make them easier. One example is sitting down while doing the dishes.

Sleep.

Good sleep habits can help improve the quality of your sleep. If you also try medicine for sleep, it's best to start on a low dose. Certain antidepressants help with sleep, mood, and chronic pain, so your doctor may suggest trying one.

Feeling dizzy or weak while sitting or standing (orthostatic intolerance).

Your doctor may have you wear pressure stockings, put your legs up while sitting, or increase your salt intake. Your doctor may also suggest medicines like fludrocortisone or midodrine.

Pain.

Different kinds of pain can be treated in different ways. If one treatment doesn't work, you and your doctor can try another until you find what works best for you.

• It's important to control focused pain, such as arthritis or migraine. This kind of pain can make ME/CFS body pain worse. First try an over-the-counter pain reliever, like acetaminophen (such as Tylenol), ibuprofen (such as Advil or Motrin), or naproxen (such as Aleve). Be safe with medicines. Read and follow all instructions on the label. If you have a migraine, it is important not to take over-the-counter pain medications on more than 10-15 days per month, because it can make your migraine worse.
• There are different types of prescription medicines that help with pain, such as antidepressants or anticonvulsants for chronic pain.
• Other treatments that can help with ME/CFS pain include acupuncture or massage. Yoga may also help. Look for a gentle form of yoga. It may be best to start off with short sessions at home.

Cope with depression, anxiety, and distress

When you have ME/CFS, you may not be able to do the things you would like to do. This may lead to feelings of frustration and anxiety. It can also lead to depression. Depression is not the same thing as ME/CFS. But it can make your ME/CFS symptoms worse.

• Work with your doctor to watch for signs of depression. People with depression often feel better after exercise, but people who have ME/CFS sometimes feel worse. If your doctor recommends exercise, it's important to start slowly and add more exercise as you feel ready.
• If your doctor suggests an antidepressant, ask if there is one that can help control your pain and help you sleep, as well as improve your mood.
• For support and help with mood problems, you can also work with a professional counsellor who understands ME/CFS.

An ME/CFS support group can be a good source of information and tips for managing your illness. It also gives you a chance to share your frustrations and problems with others who have ME/CFS.

Get the care you need

Visit your doctor every few months to help track your symptoms and check for any need to change your treatment.

Get specialized care if you need it. For example:

• A rehabilitation specialist can help you treat pain and improve your ability to do your daily tasks.
• A pain management specialist can offer a number of pain treatments.

Sign "release of information" forms so that your doctors can work together as a team.

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Here are some steps you can take to control and sometimes relieve your ME/CFS symptoms.

• Manage your activity so that you can be as active as possible without causing your symptoms to get worse.
  • Stay within your energy envelope. This is the amount of energy you have to spend in a day. For each activity you want to do, think about how much energy it will take. This can help you manage your day so that you don't spend too much or too little energy.
  • Pace yourself. Have a plan for how long you will do an activity before you take a break. Don't push yourself to get more done on days you feel well. During and between activities, take rest breaks often. This takes practice. You may find that keeping a diary or using a fitness tracker to track your activities helps.
• If you have problems sleeping, try to improve your sleep habits.
  • Avoid drinking or eating anything with caffeine after 3 p.m. This includes coffee, tea, cola drinks, and chocolate.
  • Make sure your bedroom is not too hot or too cold, and keep it quiet and dark.
  • Avoid watching TV or using your cell phone, tablet, or computer before bed.
  • Make sure your mattress provides good support.
  • Take naps if you need to. Keep them short, no more than 1 hour, and try not to take them late in the afternoon.
• If you have problems with your ability to think, remember, or concentrate, you may try finding ways to simplify your daily tasks. For example, have one spot you always put your keys and write down things you need to remember. Also make sure to pace any mental activities like phone calls or reading and writing emails.
• If you are sensitive to certain foods or chemicals, sound, or light, you may try to avoid those things. Some people may find it helpful to modify their diet and to use eye masks, sunglasses, or earplugs.
• Consider joining a support group with other people who have ME/CFS. These groups can be a good source of information and tips for what to do to feel better. Your doctor can tell you how to contact a support group.
• Consider going to counselling. It can help you learn to cope with ME/CFS. It may also help to work with a professional counsellor who understands ME/CFS.

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Medicines don't cure ME/CFS. But they can help relieve your symptoms.

Over-the-counter (OTC) medicines.

You might take over-the-counter pain relievers and anti-inflammatory drugs. They include acetaminophen (such as Tylenol), ibuprofen (such as Advil or Motrin), and naproxen (such as Aleve). They sometimes relieve joint and muscle pain, headaches, and fevers. Be safe with medicines. Read and follow all instructions on the label. Talk to your doctor if your pain isn't helped by OTC medicine. If you have a migraine, it is important not to take over-the-counter pain medications on more than 10-15 days per month, because it can make your migraine worse.

Prescription medicines.

These include:

• Anticonvulsants, also called antiseizure medicines. This type of drug, such as gabapentin or pregabalin, is sometimes prescribed for pain and sleep problems. It seems to work best when used for nerve pain.
• Antidepressants. These are prescribed to ease depression, anxiety, and pain. They may also help you concentrate more and sleep better.
• Other medicines, such as fludrocortisone or midodrine. These may help you feel less dizzy or weak when sitting up or standing after lying down.

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Along with daily self-care and the treatment you get from your doctor, you might find that other treatments help too.

There are safe non-traditional treatments that can relieve pain and stress, ease muscle tension, and help you feel better and healthier.

Some popular complementary treatments include:

• Acupuncture.
• Massage therapy.
• Mind-body techniques like mindfulness, meditation, and yoga.

Some types of yoga may be very intense and cause your symptoms to worsen. Look for a gentle form of yoga. It may be best to start off with short sessions at home so that you can take breaks.

Some people may try different diets or natural health products to help manage their symptoms. Talk with your doctor before you try a new diet or natural health product. And pay attention to how your body and symptoms respond to it. You can work closely with your doctor to figure out what works best for you.

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